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Wed Jul 14, 2010 9:03 pm
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| There's no pc way to put this one so I'm just gonna go ahead and say it straight up: Is there a way to tell your man that he is not pleasing you sexually without destroying his ego? |
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Sat Jul 24, 2010 12:47 am
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Watch a porn with him, and when you see something you like, point it out to him. let him know you want to try that move right there.
Otherwise, you're gonna find yourself stepping out on him to get your sexual needs satisfied elsewhere. |
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Mon Jul 26, 2010 5:33 am
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Treezy F Baby I got 2 words for you
Role Play And I don't mean him ;you need to ask what his fantasy is and play into that .
That always did it for me asking my lady to put on clear high heels and other accessories always had me going for a long long time.
That's a 100! sure way. |
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Mon Jul 26, 2010 10:18 pm
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MackDamage Wrote:
Treezy F Baby I got 2 words for you
Role Play And I don't mean him ;you need to ask what his fantasy is and play into that .
That always did it for me asking my lady to put on clear high heels and other accessories always had me going for a long long time.
That's a 100! sure way. |
Fa Sho! A lot of females just want to lay on their back and open their legs to be satisfied but don't want to put no real work in themselves. |
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Wed Jul 28, 2010 4:58 am
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MackDamage Wrote:
Treezy F Baby I got 2 words for you
Role Play And I don't mean him ;you need to ask what his fantasy is and play into that .
That always did it for me asking my lady to put on clear high heels and other accessories always had me going for a long long time.
That's a 100! sure way. |
Fa Sho! A lot of females just want to lay on their back and open their legs to be satisfied but don't want to put no real work in themselves. |
Wow...That was very presumptuous of you and quite tacky. |
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Wed Jul 28, 2010 8:00 pm
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| Not really, it's true from my experience. Not all but a lot of females just want to lay back and get f*cked, don't want to suck no d1ck or nothin. |
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Wed Jul 28, 2010 8:21 pm
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| But expect to get their back blown out, it's like Zane says: put your hard hat on and go to work! You have to be qualified for the d1ck you are recieving. |
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Tue Aug 03, 2010 2:26 am
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| missionary position is the most common position. |
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Tue Aug 03, 2010 6:10 pm
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| There is nothing wrong with the missionary position, that's cool. I'm talking about the females that want to lay back and get pleased but don't want to put no effort in themselves |
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Tue Aug 17, 2010 6:52 pm
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| Treezy F. Baby wrote: |
| There's no pc way to put this one so I'm just gonna go ahead and say it straight up: Is there a way to tell your man that he is not pleasing you sexually without destroying his ego? |
my ques for you Treezy is how are things Outside the bedroom? Do yall have friction at non-intiment times? Try being a little more cooperative with him outside of sex. Suckin his d*ck can go a long way too.Not that lazy shznit either! I mean Spontanious "N*gga I got This !" type head. MY performance fell off w/ my ex when I felt like our sex was like a job.She wasnt sukin my d*ck in 4playway she used to.It wasn't exciting AND we would be arguing&sh*t days prior. My chick reads up on enhancing her oral skills, Just by her tellin me that Makes me wanna Beat ItUp. Dont even f@k him rite away,suk him off until he wanna TAKE da p*sy,then Ride him out.OR give him sum head at a time yall cant have sex yet(like on the way to the store or on a date)WUTEVER U DO DONT TELL HIM THAT THE SEX IS WAK..UNLESS U TRYIN TO CUT HIM LOOSE.---just my 2cents... |
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Wed Aug 18, 2010 5:59 pm
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Fri Aug 20, 2010 8:16 pm
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....what up treezy?
great question. i think that tactful honesty is the best approach. in other words, find a moment or two to just talk about sex. as simple as that shyt sounds, too many ppl overlook it and expect each other to automatically know what works.
me personally, i'm an eclectic type of cat when it comes to hitting it. plus, hitting the gym on the regular gives me the stamina and agility to do some bizarre shyt. i use bookshelves, phone books, mangos, desks, washing machines, patios, bathtubs, ropes......everything.
i make up shyt as i go. reason being is because sex gets boring over time. so, just chop it up with this cat and initiate dialouge. |
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Fri Aug 20, 2010 8:20 pm
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...plus, each time i hit it. i ask for a damn Performance Review. just like one you receive after completing a big project or assignment. i'm serious....i get up and be asking questions like a muthafocka....
reason being is that i'm not afraid of critical feedback. the priceless takeaway after several review sessions is that i have those legs trembling like the damn Harlem shake. |
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